Investing time and thought into planning wholesome activities for your child’s non-school hours and playtime can be the antidote to boredom that you’ve been looking for. It will help your child develop creativity and enable him to take advantage of the precious childhood years, and establish habits for a well-balanced lifestyle for him to enjoy in years to come. Even if you are only able to spend a limited amount of time with your children due to school, your job, etc., the key is focused attention and making your times together quality.
Play Idea Guide Excerpted from Kick the TV Habit, by Steven and Ruth Bennett Play with Books * Write (or tell) a sequel. Do you ever wonder what happens after the storybook ends? Well, have your family continue the plots of their favorite books, adding a variety of situations and characters. * Draw a book report. Here’s a project the whole family can enjoy: Draw five pictures that summarize the plots of some favorite family books. Then have each family member present his or her “report,” and see if everyone else can name the book. * Meet the characters. Your child may have given oral book reports before, but has he or she ever done so from the perspective of the author? Ask your child to pretend that he or she has penned a favorite book, and then express insights about the characters that only the author can offer. * Five stars. Does your family have strong opinions about books? Schedule book review sessions, and use them to steer family members toward books that are not already household runaway successes. * Act the part. Choose a favorite storybook with some great characters, and cast family members in the major roles. Then have your family read the book aloud—with each person portraying a leading character. Homemade Toys Your house is chock-full of new toys and games. All your family has to do is invent them. (Please note, however, that some of the following activities involve small items that may be swallowed by young children. Supervise carefully.) * Game board. Make your own game board complete with colored spaces, obstacles, pitfalls, and playing cards. Have your child invent his or her own rules. * Towel tube rocket. Have your kids glue “fins” and a nose cone on an empty paper towel tube, decorate it, and head for outer space! * Counter’s list. Find things at home that “add up to” a numbered list. For example, you may have one refrigerator, two bathtubs, three chairs, and four smoke detectors. You may even have five family members! * Invent a machine. Start with an empty box, and glue on plastic lids, bottle caps, buttons, metal washers, pipe cleaners, pictures, bits of string, cardboard arrows, and anything else your kids can imagine. This machine can do anything! * Town layout. Roll out a large sheet of craft paper or newsprint, and create a town. Add small boxes for buildings and cars, and draw streets, sidewalks, playgrounds, and so on. Now you’re ready to move in! * Bingo. Make simple bingo cards with letters across the top and numbers down the side. Take turns pulling slips from a large bowl and mark your spaces with buttons. Bingo! * Homemade memory game. Glue similar pictures from magazines onto small paper or cardboard squares in matching pairs. Mix them up, lay them out facedown, and concentrate! Can you turn over a matching picture pair? * Spaghetti pick-up sticks. Play pick-up sticks with uncooked spaghetti. * Sorting race. Fill a bowl with a lot of small items: dry beans, pasta, nuts, etc. Run time trials to see who can sort them out in an empty ice-cube tray (or egg carton) more quickly than last time. As a variation, do the sorting blindfolded! * Costume hunt. Hide dress-up items around the house, and have your kids find and put them on. Make the search more interesting by marking items with stick-on labels, so each child has his or her own set to locate.
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If you want a happier family and happier family life, here’s how: Include Me in everything you do.
I’m not talking about dry, formal, somber religiosity—anything but! You just might be surprised at how much fun I can be! The benefits of including Me are too numerous to list here, but I’ll give you three. One: I’m full of ideas. My Father and I created this world together—the first-ever family project, if you will—and you’ve got to admit, we came up with some pretty good stuff! If we made it all for you and want you to enjoy it to the full—which we did—don’t you think I can show you better things to do together than to sit semi-comatose in front of a TV? Two: I can relate. I can relate to every generation and know better than anyone how to bring generations together and keep them together. Don’t forget, I’ve been at this a long time. There’s no situation you face that I haven’t helped others deal with before, so consult with Me the moment you begin to have problems on the home front. Three: More love. Isn’t that what you want most for your family—love? I am love—the very spirit of love—so where I am, love is. The Bible says that in My presence is fullness of joy, and at My right hand are pleasures forevermore (Psalm 16:11). I have so much love to give you and yours—more than you could possibly imagine and much more than you can contain. It’s here for you any time, all the time, just for the asking. I’m at your beck and call. Just say, “Jesus, thank You for being a part of our family—the head of our family. Be with us now in what we’re about to do.” We worry about what a child will become tomorrow, yet we forget that he is someone today.—Stacia Tauscher
* You can learn many things from children. How much patience you have, for instance.—Franklin P. Jones * Every child comes with the message that God is not yet discouraged of man.—Rabindranath Tagore * There’s nothing that can help you understand your beliefs more than trying to explain them to an inquisitive child.—Frank A. Clark * There are no seven wonders of the world in the eyes of a child. There are seven million.—Walt Streightiff * Making the decision to have a child is momentous. It is to decide forever to have your heart go walking around outside your body.—Elizabeth Stone * Before I got married I had six theories about bringing up children; now I have six children, and no theories.—John Wilmot * To bring up a child in the way he should go, travel that way yourself.—Josh Billings * It’s not only children who grow. Parents do too. As much as we watch to see what our children do with their lives, they are watching us to see what we do with ours. I can’t tell my children to reach for the sun. All I can do is reach for it myself.—Joyce Maynard * Don’t worry that children never listen to you; worry that they are always watching you.—Robert Fulghum * If there is anything that we wish to change in the child, we should first examine it and see whether it is not something that could better be changed in ourselves.—C.G. Jung * Children have more need of models than of critics.—Carolyn Coats * Each day of our lives we make deposits in the memory banks of our children.—Charles R. Swindoll * What a child doesn’t receive he can seldom later give.—P.D. James * If you want your children to improve, let them overhear the nice things you say about them to others.—Haim Ginott * In bringing up children, spend on them half as much money and twice as much time.—Author unknown * What’s done to children, they will do to society.—Karl Menninger * You have a lifetime to work, but children are only young once.—Polish proverb * Kids spell love T-I-M-E.—John Crudele * The guys who fear becoming fathers don’t understand that fathering is not something perfect men do, but something that perfects the man. The end product of child raising is not the child but the parent.—Frank Pittman Excerpted from the Activated Magazine. |
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